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Jesus, the Light of the World
Jesus once told people, “I am the Light of the World; anyone who follows Me will not walk in darkness but will have the Light of life.” – JOHN 8:12 (NLT)
Christmas is almost here. For many, it’s a joyful time filled with family, gifts, and celebration. But for others, it can bring feelings of sadness or hardship. In this article, I’ll share simple ways to bring faith and joy into your Christmas, helping you to shine even in difficult times.
My Christmas Memories
Growing up in the late 1950s and early 1960s, Christmas was special in my home. Big family gatherings, delicious food, thoughtful gifts, and stories made the season magical. My parents always ensured we remembered the true reason for Christmas — Jesus.
One of my favorite holiday treats was my mom’s Martha Washington Candy. She made it with love and mailed it to me every year. If you’re feeling adventurous, I’ve included her simple recipe at the end so you can enjoy it too.
Recognizing Holiday Challenges
While Christmas can be joyful, it can also be difficult. You might be facing grief, loss, divorce, or separation from loved ones. Maybe this is your first holiday without someone special, or you’re far from home due to work or deployment. I’ve experienced loss too — my mom in December 2016 and my dad shortly after. I understand how these times can feel dark. Remember, Jesus understands your pain and wants to bring His light into your heart.
In John 8:12, Jesus promises to be our Light. If you’re struggling this season, hold onto that promise. Here are nine ways to invite faith and joy into your Christmas:
Rediscover the Meaning of Christmas
No matter how your year went, you can find joy by focusing on Jesus, the true reason for Christmas. As J.I. Packer said, Christmas is about Jesus humbling Himself to bring humanity hope, peace, and love. Let that truth inspire your celebration.
Practice Gratitude, Even in Grief
In November, we celebrate Thanksgiving — a perfect reminder to count our blessings. If you’re mourning, take a moment to thank God for the love and memories you hold. Gratitude can comfort and uplift your spirit.
Embrace Mindfulness
Be present. Enjoy each moment without dwelling on past hurts or worries about the future. Mindfulness helps you experience God’s presence now, bringing peace and joy during busy, stressful days.
Reach Out with Kindness
Christmas is a time to connect. Be the one to start a kind conversation or help a neighbor. Small acts of kindness can brighten someone’s day, including yours!
Honor Old Traditions and Create New Ones
Cherish meaningful traditions, like sharing recipes or decorating together. Life changes, and so can your traditions. Be flexible — create new memories that reflect your current season.
Take Care of Yourself
Holiday busyness can drain you. Remember, caring for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. Jesus reminded us to love our neighbors *and* ourselves (Matthew 22:39). Prioritize rest, prayer, and activities that recharge you.
Give Generously
Remember God’s greatest gift — Jesus. Follow His example by giving to others: bake cookies for neighbors, donate to charity, volunteer your time, or support your church. Giving brings joy and purpose.
Attend Church and Celebrate
Join a Christmas service—singing carols, hearing the story of Jesus’ birth, and worshipping can fill your heart with hope and gratitude.
Engage in Joyful Activities
Do what lifts your spirits:
- Listen to holiday music
- Enjoy your favorite warm drink
- Make a snow angel
- Share jokes or stories
- Reconnect with loved ones
- Write in a journal
In Closing
You have a choice this Christmas: Let your faith and hope shine, even in the dark. If you feel alone or overwhelmed, reach out for help — call a friend, attend a church, or contact the national helpline at 811.
I pray that your holiday is filled with the light and love of Jesus, bringing renewed hope and joy. Remember, the reason for the season is love — God’s love made real in Jesus.
Wishing you a blessed and joyful Christmas!
Blessings, and Merry Christmas
John Thurman
Here is Mom’s Christmas Special in her handwriting.
